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Japanese working culture fucking sucks
And even if there's no thank you. Everyone smiles and does it back for each other. Like seriously it's called being a decent human being. People aren't your dormat.Being raised in the south, it's so weird to see this whole 'people never say thank you' thing, because down here almost everybody says thank you for almost everything. Let someone cut in front of you? That's a 'Thank you.'. Hold the door open for someone? That's a 'Thank you.'. Do literally anything even remotely nice? That's a 'Thank you.'. Seriously, what's so hard about saying two simple words to show basic gratitude for niceties?
At least in my experience everyone in the south (US) does mean it. The underlying thing isn't even that we say thank you. It's that we generally take more time in speaking. I actually had to learn about this a lot, but it's rather interesting because northerns perceive this as southern either being less intelligent and not able to talk faster or that they take more consideration into their speech. But the fact is we generally just care more about individual human connection. We don't just say thank you, to say thank you. We take time in saying it and perform the same action for others and typically make sure the action is complete (like someone doesn't need more help). Literally our greeting is "hi how are you" and yeah most people say good and keep walking or good and ask it back, but if you express you aren't just good and want to talk about it (even to a random stranger) they'll listen. Definitely aren't licensed therapist and probably won't give the right advice back but they'll at least listen.theres a difference in just saying thank you by reflex vs actually being thankful and meaning it
seems like their schools business model is "therapy for depressed IT engineers", might as well just give them a money printing machine.
I can only speak for the US and Japan. In the US it's SUPER illegal because of various anti discrimination laws and protecting health records and so on. In Japan, it's actually the traditional norm and only recently changing. Japan has a strong tradition (and still often does) focus on family status and lineage. It'd be considered normal to ask about your parents, what they did for a living, etc. Even in the resume process it's required to include a photograph of yourself (whereas again super illegal in the US).Is it really true people asks interviewee's private life in interviews? Sounds like a nightmare.
I came to this comment section because I knew someone would reference Ruina. Glad to see I am not disappointed.![]()
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I can't believe Roland is here
And nobody should ever be shamed for liking cute things.Cute stuff is cute