Fake Saint of the Year: You Wanted the Perfect Saint? Too Bad! - Ch. 33

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A bunch of boys hanging up to beat a girl? That is quite odd because most boys would be embarrassed.

the part where the girl afraid of him instead of thanking him, it hurt to watch but can't be helped since most of victims mind is working like that.
they have no courage to come out from their situation but has no regard on those who helped them.
not all of them like that but most case is.
another exampie is when bullied person fights back, they got punished instead. because People around them know but they didn't help so they deep down afraid to be held for responsible and accountable.

Actually, if the girl was afraid she would just agree passively but never actually call him. More logically is that she is afraid his meddling will mean those guys will take it out on her more harshly when he isn't watching so she is pushing him away.

Also, the big reason why a victim can get in trouble is because most bullies know where to draw the line not to get in trouble. A bullied person usually fights back at spur of the moment without thinking ignoring all lines.

Perception is important and many people don't consider that when they fling out emotionally
 
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A bunch of boys hanging up to beat a girl? That is quite odd because most boys would be embarrassed.



Actually, if the girl was afraid she would just agree passively but never actually call him. More logically is that she is afraid his meddling will mean those guys will take it out on her more harshly when he isn't watching so she is pushing him away.

Also, the big reason why a victim can get in trouble is because most bullies know where to draw the line not to get in trouble. A bullied person usually fights back at spur of the moment without thinking ignoring all lines.

Perception is important and many people don't consider that when they fling out emotionally
ugh , yeah. can't argue with that.

but there also case where they don't care about the line. especially when they have backing (like high position parents or relatives, money, etc)
 
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ugh , yeah. can't argue with that.

but there also case where they don't care about the line. especially when they have backing (like high position parents or relatives, money, etc)
That is still a line. Even if they have backing be it high position family, money or etc. The line is simply bigger for them and with experience they know how much they can get away with. That isn't to say bullies don't cross the line at spur of the moment, but that usually is when they get in trouble. But many bullies know their line and stick within it. Not so for victims who lash out without thinking (unless they are lucky)

To give you a personal example, there was this kid who was semi bullying me from time to time. Mostly because there were easier targets in class and he probably knew I was stronger than him. But I tended to be very tolerant so sometimes he took advantage of that.

So one time in class during a free class, he came up, took my paper and crumpled it up. Normally I would just get annoyed and let it go. But that day something snapped and I came up to him, lifted him by the neck with one hand and flung him. He crashed into multiple desks and fell on the floor. At that point, I woke up from snapping seeing everyone including the teacher staring. I was like "oh shit, I'm going to get suspended". That is an example of a victim losing control and picking a poor location while going too far and crossing the line. If I at least found him outside of school and did that, it would have been easier to get away with then doing it right in middle of a class

So everyone is staring there frozen. But the teacher comes to the kid on the floor and tells him to go to the dean. Yes, he got in trouble. It seems the teacher happened to be looking down and didn't see me pick him up and fling him. All they saw was end result after the crash noise. And since he fell quite a bit away from me, the teacher likely thought he was fooling around and ended up toupling over the desks. This is an example of perception. What you see and what others see are 2 different things. Someone can punch you, and you punch them back but no one saw you get punched, only you punching them. Bullies also know how to abuse perception unlike a person lashing out. I just got lucky

Of course the class always follows the rules of "snitches get stitches". So nobody said anything. Even the bullies so called friends said nothing and just laughed at the odd turn of events
 

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