@Newbii
That's only if there's possibility of talking things like adults. Ever been in Pakistan or Middle-East? Or maybe Japan and the rest of Asia? You see, in that part of the world, these things are non-negotiable. Your only choice there is to say yes or die, killed by your own family members for the sake of "honor". The only way to get out of this kind of bs by saying no is to kill yourself. That way, they can't kill you for "honor", while you can give them a middle finger.
What about fleeing? They will find you and kill you. If they couldn't, they will keep trying with their descendants to hunt you and your descendants. They will keep trying to kill you and your legacy no matter what.