Harapeko Oyako to Motokare Yanushi

[Smegmamale69]

You can call me virgin but the attitude of the daughter really bugs me, she's getting angry over the presumed bad taste of the food instead of appreciate the fact that they have food and a roof over their heads for free, the ungratefullness is crazy

 

[rock0666]

Everyone seems pretty negative for no reason. We don't even know the whole backstory yet.

 

[Aisia]

It feels like MC is trying to be a contender for Kazuya in KanoKari

Like atleast ask for explanation regarding her situation because you definitely deserve that for all the trouble.

 

[Iwantrobux]

I don't know what's worse. The fact that MC STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE THAT LEFT HIM 17 YEARS AGO (that are not those of hate for some reason for ghosting him), or the fact that this is most likely a self-insert fantasy of the female author (like those absolute abominations of literal-no-personality-mc self-insert romcoms).

Explain to me how, for 17 YEARS you're so hung up on your ex, that you don't try to have a relationship with other women. If he was so depressed and sad for her leaving him, why didn't he off himself? In situations like these, he'd have attempted it and he would've either succeeded or his friend/s would've helped him get out of his depression and he'd be dating again. Either way, he would've gotten over her for that time span. If that "friend" of his hasn't helped him get over her in all this time, then that's not a friend, that's an acquaintance at best.

You have never had a good ex girlfriend before if you never had feelings after the break up.

 

[Iwantrobux]

It's plainly stupid to defend this manga unless the story can somehow justify whatever the fuck she did. As for now, you're really gonna let in a parasite that left you and had another man's child?

Here's the catch, it may seem wholesome, but that's the one sided perspective of this manga. Even to a man and woman having an affair, it will be romantic and wholesome in their eyes. You can watch a nice and cute couple in the train carriage sitting across from you, but you don't know that the other may actually have another partner that he/she is cheating on. You could see a very helpful and kind man, but on his own side that you don't see, he has murdered a few people.

There's many irl scenarios that you can use as an analogy for these type of stories. All hidden under the pretense that "it's actually a wholesome story so far." Is the law going to say, "this man has been a wholesome member of society for the recent years, so his murder of some people a decade ago shall be forgiven"?

Idk whom are dissing whom in this comment section, all I know is that the ones not defending it, definitely are not incels and more of a sensible member of society. Maybe learn the real meaning of the word, or maybe the defenders are the ones actually closer to being incels if they're easily tricked by a "wholsome story" glossing over the elephant in the room. That just show how much you're desperate for a woman.

They left off on neutral or slightly good terms not really on bad ones. The MC even still has feelings for her. I understand you’re trying to come off as polite but in a realistic scenario, it’s not really bad. The story teaches a valuable lesson whether you hate it or not. Being able to trust someone and looking past your unnecessary paranoia will open up opportunities and a new bond will form.

 

[Dzrian]

They left off on neutral or slightly good terms not really on bad ones. The MC even still has feelings for her. I understand you’re trying to come off as polite but in a realistic scenario, it’s not really bad. The story teaches a valuable lesson whether you hate it or not. Being able to trust someone and looking past your unnecessary paranoia will open up opportunities and a new bond will form.

I’m quite sure in a realistic scenario, it’s not that simple and would be more disliked upon. I think I went on that long rant because it was infuriating seeing people misusing the word, “incel,” against those with some sense of self worth.

 

[KillerTyphoons]

I wonder what the chances are that the kid is his. I'm like 99% sure she is, would be weird to bring someone else's kid with you to an ex for help. That would, in my opinion, be something you'd take them to their father for help.

 

[Dark1400]

I wonder what the chances are that the kid is his. I'm like 99% sure she is, would be weird to bring someone else's kid with you to an ex for help. That would, in my opinion, be something you'd take them to their father for help.

MC did the math, kid is 14, break up was 17 years ago, my theory is that the kid is from a dead relative and the mom adopted, there is nothing to back this up, but honestly there isn't much to back anything at this point.

 

[Drunkendx]

From comments I see many never had normal relationships.

And draw their only knowledge about relationships from crap unrealistic mangas/tv shows.

Honestly it's hilarious how little actual relationship experience many commenters here have.

Fun fact: being horny about someone does not mean you love that person.

That's why so many relationships have toxic endings, because people mistake horniness/physical attraction for genuine love.

 

[Kokorokimochi]

I guess this is the power of manga. You can make something uncomfortable into something wholesome. I mean, who would be gullible enough to let his long past ex gf with a kid to live with him???

 

[MLGSwagmaster64]

SIIIIIIMP
MAN IS A SIIIIIMP

 

[MLGSwagmaster64]

Ok the manga is honestly fine

What really is twisting my arm is how mc doesnt ask her what happened? I understand if they came from an busive home, the last thing they would want to do is explain their situation. However given time ( which they clerly have) i would at least expect mc to ask hwr questions. A perfect time to ask this question was when he was asking her how long she intends to stay at his place?

The daughter i honestly dislike but i completely understand her point of view. She wants her mom to be happy but is also selfish in the sense she feels like if they got married she will be forgotten as she is gfrom her old fmily and not from the new marriage.

Overall there are many questions i want answer

 

[Guesto]

This is a story about betrayal disguised with food and comedy, even japanese don't like it.

 

[SlayMew]

This is definitely one if those manga. “Everything reminds me of her” kinda style.

“I can fix her, and she can fill my empty heart.”

The manga gives “Im alone and the one thing that can heal me is a cute useless girl who will depend and rely on me. She will be incapable without me for the author has deemed me the main character.”

If you like incel-like fantasies and want to own women, this is the manga for you.

based as fk

 

[Kairuss]

Because of manga (and any media) like this people expect men to be some beta cucks who would as a matter of course take care of some other man's f*ck ups.

Even if she is his daughter that would be lame af to abandon him for 17 years.

Or you could be a good human being and help someone who needs it?

 

[eri_katsumi]

it's kinda wholesome for me tho...
it's only sad because im reading it while playing "mitski first love late spring"

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[fujtors]

Bunch of incels talking about cuckoldry because they read two chapters of some random comedy/slice of life manga.

Like, who hurt y'all? You're living with a lot of rage to be hating so hard on something so inoffensive.

Not that I'm much better; I came here knowing y'all'd be here and mad. lol

How is it incels when no self respecting man would do that you are the weird one that would allow something like this to happen to you the men reading this feel terrible for the man cause just cause it’s cute don’t make it right and nobody had to hurt anyone the beginning is fucked up imagine not hearing a person u loved for 17 years of your life then they suddenly came back and tried to pick up like they left off and then be like oh yea I have a daughter now oh and we don’t got no place to go so can we stay here ? No actual person man or woman would actually be like yea ofc come in my house u didn’t know me for 17 years of your life when u didn’t need me but ofc u can come in eat my food bathe in my shower oh u brought your daughter too oh now I have to spend even more money and pay more bills wonderful and the reason isn’t so he can get rent it’s for a smile 😐 be real

 

[fujtors]

Little curious why the author decided on FMC being MC's ex. I imagine this comment section would be a lot calmer if she was a stranger (or hell, still together with an abusive husband, for those with a saviour complex).

Shit if she was a stranger it would of been cool cause then it would be like getting to know them and everything and the child not being his would be more reasonable like getting to know both of them and becoming a family thats wholesome raising another man’s seed is not so wholesome not hearing from an ex for 17 years is not wholesome shit if they were friends I would of let is slid cause they broke up but they at least remained friends i would be pissed at him for not helping his friend just because she’s an ex

 

[Phelgming]

How is it incels when no self respecting man would do that you are the weird one that would allow something like this to happen to you the men reading this feel terrible for the man cause just cause it’s cute don’t make it right and nobody had to hurt anyone the beginning is fucked up imagine not hearing a person u loved for 17 years of your life then they suddenly came back and tried to pick up like they left off and then be like oh yea I have a daughter now oh and we don’t got no place to go so can we stay here ? No actual person man or woman would actually be like yea ofc come in my house u didn’t know me for 17 years of your life when u didn’t need me but ofc u can come in eat my food bathe in my shower oh u brought your daughter too oh now I have to spend even more money and pay more bills wonderful and the reason isn’t so he can get rent it’s for a smile 😐 be real

He didn't love her for 17 years; that's how long she was gone. If he loved her for 17 years after briefly dating, then the problem is with him.

If someone I cared about disappeared, then came back after 17 years with a kid saying they didn't have anywhere to go, it doesn't matter what my relationship with them was (romantic, platonic, etc.); if I had the space to help them, I'd try to help. It's basic human decency. I'm not going to turn away a mother and child to the streets. If I had unresolved problems that stuck with me for almost two decades that I never worked through, that'd be really fucking weird.

I never kept up with this manga; I don't know what's happened, but I remember how it started and there wasn't nearly enough context for any of the people here to be reacting the way they were. Just a bunch of weirdos throwing their arms up and getting up in a huff about a single mother trying to find a place for her and her daughter to stay. I'd sooner ask my worst childhood nemesis for a room to stay than let my child sleep on the streets. For all the MC, I, or anyone here knew, she was desperate and he was one of the last options she had.

 

[Dzrian]

I can understand where the people who support this is coming from, but that only makes sense if you ignore the elephant in the room. This isn’t really realistic, and it’s not being an incel for criticising.

I’m not even your typical virgin otaku with no irl experience. I’ve had a few relationships already. So when I think about it, “my gf disappears from my life and comes back later with another man’s child,” there’s no way I’d simply leave things unaddressed and not feel betrayed.

It’s disguised as wholesome, masked under, “human decency,” to help someone. Then why aren’t you taking in homeless people?
At most, even if you do help, a more plausible scenario is one where you are distant with her. Setting limits, boundaries, rent, etc.

I will only agree it can be wholesome if the issues are actually addressed instead of making the mc a beta cuck. Based on what the comments are saying.