Hope You're Happy, Lemon - Ch. 60

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Teenagers are called teenagers because their ages are in the teens.

Some teenagers are by definition/legally considered children. Some teenagers are by definition/legally considered adults.

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teen·ag·er
/ˈtēˌnājər/
noun
  1. a person aged between 13 and 19 years.
    "as a teenager she discovered she had a talent for dance"
And on this Canadian site it's defined as 3-17, because it's the grouping by age that matters. Students are young adults, it doesn't make sense to group them with middle- and high-schoolers. IIRC adulthood used to be granted at 20 or higher in the past, so it ,aybe made sense then to group them together, but if someone says "they were still teenagers" it just doesn't make sense to refer to legal adult as part of the same group as middle-schooler. If they're considered legally able to consent to all kinds of work, sex/porn, being in army, they aren't "just a teenager".
That's just wrong tho. Towards the end of your college years you are painfully aware of the difference in behaviour and reasoning between your peers and the new batch of freshmen. They seem closer to highscoolers than yourself.
But all of that is completely besides the point, which was originally that Lemon was a teenager (13 or so) when she broke up with Sunao, so her making weird decisions was both expected and excusable.
I don't really agree that her weird decisions were expected or excusable even at 13, but it's all too common for manga to have main characters behave in nonsensical or stupidly exaggerated way in first chapter to create story hook, then ignore or handwave it later as not that important. See for example Takamine-san's whole blackmail thing.

And I disagree with behavior and reasoning being that different between students in different years. Already by high-school your individual maturity is more important than your school year, and the whole "people younger than me are less mature" is common delusion that affects even people at 30-something. I bet if you took 20yo student and 20yo full-time working adult, they both would see much difference between their perspectives, and could both see the other one as less mature. It's a illusion of having slightly difference in experience and behavior as measure of adulthood or lack of it. Hell, people love to talk about the whole "brain maturing until 25" thing, yet there are many people in the world who are already accomplished members of society and family before that age, and tons of people who are still immature and childish at 30.
 
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uhhhhhh yea no they are still considered adults by law, now if you mean emotionally because most adults aren't adults emotionally then yea I would agree with you but I don't think that's what you or some others are trying to state.....SOMEHOW you guys actually believe they are teenagers aka children even tho they are ADULTS..... ngl that thinking is kinda wild :wooow:
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