I Can’t Date My Student… Can I? - Ch. 8.1

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So all this time, she was just horny and needed a little push huh?
Kinda makes sense to be honest, but doesn't really feel in line with the last few chapters.
Not that I really complain about it, I just hope it's not another cockblock... Just let them both be happy at some point damnit!
Thanks for the chapter!
 
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I’m sorry, but even my middle school self would find this hilarious. What guy in his teenage years is this taken aback that they get an erection for another girl? I can’t count how many times I was attracted to another girl while also being in a relationship (albeit a middle school relationship but u get the point). But that was it, simple attraction. I knew this too, admittedly I have a semi-high libido but even then I had the brain to know the difference between lust and love. If some girl exposed herself to me and I was in a relationship, I know I wouldn’t feel what this guy is feeling. I don’t know a man who would feel the same as this guy, even teenagers.

Honestly I don’t even feel guilty looking at another girl while in a relationship.
Sure I won’t do it as often as I would when single, but still I’d definitely see an attractive women and get a physical reaction. Happened to me in my teenage years too, never felt guilty.
To me, this just feels like some random female author’s self-insert or fantasy. I just cant take it seriously.
 
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That's an absurd reduction of the circumstances, to the point that I originally questioned if you skipped chapters to get here.

Literally everything is different. Shou had no interest in Fujieda and made it clear, only for her to expose herself to him, forcing Shou to categorically reject her again.

Sensei-- who is only capable of deflecting, rather than rejecting Shou-- has a noticeably burgeoning romantic and sexual interest in him that she can barely suppress in their interactions (and has all but given up suppressing in her privacy). Like, look at her body language on the antepenultimate and penultimate pages of this chapter. Look at her verbal language. Tell me that's the same as what happened with Shou, with a straight face and pants not on fire.
Bro, that is still not consent what are you on about. Even if we can assume that she is into him, without a proper acknowledgement and confirmation of her feelings and that she wants to even pursue a romantic and/or sexual relationship with him (no, her body language is nowhere near enough, nor is that "tempt" line. Say that shit in front of a judge and that will still be considered sexual assault), it is still very much not okay. Yes, she might be developing romantic feelings for him, but she has not fully confirmed those feelings for herself. She is obviously a mess of emotions currently and for him to do that while she is in such an irrational state of mind is not okay. He forced himself on her, regardless of the feelings or emotions on either end.
 
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Bro, that is still not consent what are you on about
What I'm "on about" is that your comparison is beyond bogus because they're two completely different circumstances on every single level. If literally nothing else, they aren't "no different".

Say that shit in front of a judge and that will still be considered sexual assault)
It wouldn't ever be brought up in front of a judge in the first place, because they both wanted it.

It's like you've never been in-- or heard of-- a relationship where spontaneous sexual contact occurred, and nobody thought poorly of it. Hell, it's like you never read a romance comic or romance novel before-- level headed, or otherwise.

Yes, she might be developing romantic feelings for him, but she has not fully confirmed those feelings for herself.
Did you conveniently skip chapter 11?
 
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The boy started to go offensive after holding it in such a long time.

Unbelievable.
 
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He 100% made the morally wrong choice, but my fetishes are fucked up and this was way hotter. Like if this was real life and I told someone no like that and they continued, it wouldn't matter how hot it was. This is fiction for adults though so it's fine. It's just so weird after making a big deal about what happened to him.

Anyone trying to apply manga logic to irl is fucked up though. There's a difference between not needing to say anything and being told no/don't or whatever.
 
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Like if this was real life and I told someone no like that and they continued,
Continued what? Nothing started by the point he moved for the kiss.

You're drawing a comparison with a hypothetical that has a different event order (and different events altogether).

(Edit: Interesting that Eighty-Six tagged me with "dumb". My wife of 34 years agrees with me.)
I marked you "Dumb" because your hypothetical has zero resemblance to what happened in this chapter. Now, I wish I could rate you "Dumb" twice for thinking that invoking a wife of dubious existence augments your point against mine.

I've long since alluded to the fact that I'm speaking in part from my own experiences*, and I've also made clear to the fact that I'm not even speaking universally or generally-- just that the cases I am speaking of do exist.

I appreciate that more than zero people would say that they don't like this kind of approach. I already accounted for them in at least two different ways in comments past.

*Speaking for myself, I'm liable to prefer an attractive woman with whom I have extensive mutual history doing worse to me than depicted in this chapter.

I've had such done to me in the past, eliciting a neutral or positive reaction depending on the circumstances and extent of the actions. Without premeditation, I've kissed someone without getting triplicate notarization exactly once in the past, when their original ostensible intention was to confess their affectionate feelings but also break things off-- it was reciprocated enthusiastically and wasn't negatively regarded at any point afterwards, not even when we eventually broke up. I've also known what it's like to have to tell someone to get off of me at least four times because I didn't care for the extent of their contact. All of this, in part, informs my stipulations given in comments past.

I wouldn't recommend non-hesitant and unilateral initiation of any level of sexual contact, just because it's a gamble as to whether it'll be well received (as you could just be projecting your own feelings and interpreting that as "the mood")-- but I acknowledge that it happens and that it's capable of not being poorly received.
 
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