Everyone out here like 'wow that's dumb!' but literally she might genuinely be some form of autistic. Not as an insult (because in general thats a fuckin gross thing to do), i mean this literally.
She can't understand the emotions people express properly even when they're yelling, she doesn't understand how others think, her sense of morality verges into being impractical... the chances of her being neurodivergent are non-zero. Even if she isn't i don't think it's an intelligence issue, I think it might've been her environment growing up, because clearly, her morality is like that for a reason, y'know?
Also, maybe don't publically express you'd be unwilling to help someone trying to help you because she's being emotionally unintelligent, maybe don't say you'd leave someone to get trauma despite your capability to stop it because you think it could work as a learning experience! Like, maybe... think, for longer than two seconds? Because all this is showing is a startiling like of empathy, which is ironically not a very emotionally intelligent thing to do!