Something that frustrates me in these comments is people who act like she should speak up against her abusive family more. She's done that, all that happens is she gets physically abused, and she can't exactly get into a fist fight with a man much larger and stronger than her. And since some people have forgotten, the story starts with her being murdered by soldiers likely employed by her father. There is no situation where she can push back without things getting much worse against a man who would use lethal force against her. The only way out of this is the streets or the duke, anything else is idiotic, and she's taking both options seriously.