Ki ni Natteru Hito ga Otoko ja Nakatta - Ch. 163 - Connection

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12 pages? Triple the content, triple the fun!

And what a big, thematic chapter it was. "Connections" are being formed even when our leads are apart. Something really neat is how the panel design adds meaning to the story. Arai is very very good at panelling. I love how the last panel shows Shu and Rinko, diagonal in the same subway car, sharing the pensive sigh. They've both had moments of personal growth, spurred on by our lead characters. They have a connection between them, unknown to them. They find themselves in the same place, literally and figuratively. Parallel structures, parallel themes. Stuff like this is why this is the number one all-time OtakuXGyaru romance story.

Some more art wins from this chapter: The "throb" sfx spreading across the pages where Shu appears, like a persistent fly nagging at her. The transition from Aya handing Shu a drink, separating the page top and bottom, into Rinko's dilemma with two drinks. Then the transition on page 7, with Koga's hands playing guitar/the band beginning to play, to bring us back to Shu and Aya, repeating the same visual device from the drink handoff. On pages 10-11 we get twin scenes of Rinko/Koga and Shu-Aya looking at each other after their personal revelations. All these parallel moments showing their connections- so good.

If we are setting up a big messy love quadrilateral, then it's being done well. Life can get messy and confusing, just like the web of connections in this chapter. But I don't think it will go there. At least not into true NTR or cheating or anything beyond one-sided crushes. Right now, I think of Shu and Rinko more as yuri kouhais under mentors Aya and Mitsuki. It's interesting to think of what would happen if Shu and Rinko ever met. Would they be like cat and dog, fighting over whose mentor is cooler, before realizing that their mentors are a couple? That would be fun.
Both girls know Aya and Mitsuki are taken anyway. They've both seen them with their significant other. Shu specifically knows for a fact that Aya is dating Mitsuki and the other friend had her melancholic realization a few chapters ago when Mitsuki ran to Aya in the rain. Neither girl seems like the nasty type. The connection could also refer to them. Really interested in them now too, especially Shu chan.
 
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Welp looks like ima take from this manga now, for at least 10 chapters. There’s gonna be more “moments” or whatever the hell between these two new characters, there’s gonna be miscommunication, there’s gonna be some bs drama soon I can sense it.
So ima be back when it’s resolved
 
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Shu and Rinko feel like homonculi molded for one express purpose and then sent out to die. Its like the villiain of the week in a filler episode of a battle shonen series. "Tune in next week where Rinko swoons more over Mitsuki! Edge of your seat breakneck action!"
 
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ya... can someone give me a hint here, who is this Shu person and when did they show up? were they here before the time skip?
Gladly since chat forgets but also Rinko the tall girl talking to Mitsuki has been around since Ch. 146 just to prove these girls aren't just throw away / insert girls

Shu was introduced like the 2nd chapter of the time skip Chapter 144 (I think she got retcon cause she looks different and doesn't mention her knee pain) I know it's her cause in Chapter 147 there's a Halloween party where Aya hits her with the "It's more fun to watch the movie with SHU-chan And the gang" implying Aya was already giving off vibes to Shu. I think a commenter said something funny about how Shu would "take advantage" of Aya when every chapter Aya and Shu are together it's Aya dragging Shu along with her. Guys they aren't random characters.
I am curious why Aya is fixated on Shu , sure it's not romantically (maybe) but I think Aya is being a terrible gf if she's trying to help Shu out with her problem while using her to avoid Mitsuki's band incident.
 
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Hm... from Aya and Mitsuki's side it just seems like they're just being kind and making friends. The other two are a bit more ambiguous. Love? Idolizing? Idk but this story doesn't feel like one that baits like most people think.
 
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The author is a woman. And this isn't published in a magazine, it's published on her twitter.

Edit: Why are people striking this? The author is a woman, what exactly do you disagree with?

To your edit: probably something to do with "tone" or something people get weird when they think they're being talked down to (even when it's not them being addressed)
 
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There is 0 setup for such a development (their relationship is arguably going stronger than ever
I think it was shown pretty clearly that their emotional relationship became strained due to Mituski's trauma, and the communication issues it causes between them. It hasn't reached any kind of critical point, but the issues are starting to pile up. I don't think we are at the level of them breaking up, but also I wouldn't be too surprised if that's where the story is heading in 20-30 chapters. The setup is definitely there.
 
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Low key this series has been bad for me since the time skip. Haven't enjoyed it since.
Serious question: why not just consider the pre-timeskip the end and just leave it at that?

I guess I just really don't understand continuing to read a story that upsets or annoys you or that you otherwise don't enjoy, and then coming to comment sections to complain about not enjoying it chapter after chapter.
 
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Serious question: why not just consider the pre-timeskip the end and just leave it at that?

I guess I just really don't understand continuing to read a story that upsets or annoys you or that you otherwise don't enjoy, and then coming to comment sections to complain about not enjoying it chapter after chapter.
1. Kinda heavily invested at this point in the storry, so I want to see the ending even if I don't like it.
2. I don't really post here I think this is like my second or third post. So I was wondering if I was the only who felt like this. Guess I am.
 
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Author is really trying to destroy the story they build up for 163 chapters by introducing this terrible fucking drama… Just saying if anything at all happens between the MCs and any of these 2 characters it will instantly become a 1/10 series…
 
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gods forbid people makes friends when they are already in a relationship
But thats not what going on here… It is clear that these 2 characters are into the MCs. Had it been clear that they would just be new friends nobody would mind, but the fact that the author for some stupid reason is going down NTR/break up route is what people is mad about…
Like who likes to read 160+ chapters of MCs falling for each other, getting together and being happily in love only for them to suddenly get together with other characters?
 
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To be honest I don't think it's gonna end in NTR or cheating , it's more likely they'll break up first over a lack of communication and the side girls are just rebound. I will say though I am kinda interested in that cause Aya and Shu's relationship is interesting and again I'm just curious why Aya cares so much about Shu. While on the flip side I can see Mitsuki and Rinko battling their insecurities together and there's still more we can learn from Rinko maybe she can be a future band mate with Mitsuki :wooow:
But that's me playing devil's advocate here, obviously everyone wants Green Yuri... I can spice up my colors tho :nyoron:
 
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To be honest, ever since the time skip I've had trouble keeping track of who is who, and what the plot is. I should probably go back and re-read it all.
Ikr, I'm so freakin confused. I'm grateful that this chapter was 12 pages, the 4-page format was great when things were simple, but it's really hard to keep up with what's happening when it keeps changing scenes after only four pages. Even in this 12 page chapter it still changes character focus twice AND skips forward in time a little to after the party on that last page.

I'm definitely going to have to go back for a re-read soon, but I am glad to finally see more of Mitsuki's turmoil with music after Aya saw her lifeless performance and they completely ignored it ever happened.
 

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