@Sharkexpert12 There's nothing janky about They. It's like saying there's something janky about 'you' which follows similar principles. Some people are just really stubborn against anything they're slightly not used to.
The only jank is if someone tries to make they follow the wrong rules. They are can be singular just like you are is, if you try saying they is/you is for example, it's janky, but not how it works regardless. The difference between 'is' speech and 'are' speech is more etymology based than anything.
Then that just leaves the argument that 'they is hard to tell apart when there's multiple people, are they talking singularly or plurally?' but frankly that's no more of an issue than 'she' while there's multiple women, or 'he' when there's multiple men. At that point you're really just better using someone's name if it needs to be explicitly identifying one person.
It's funny since in other/most languages like Japanese, non gendered language IS really hard, English is not the same though, some people are just stubborn against very old rules that are only coming into higher prominence now.