I dunno. I mean, I'm the villain to a few people, but that's because I'm an opinionated SOB. But I've known people who are much nicer than I am and who as far as I can tell really aren't the villain to much of anyone, and contrariwise are helpful to quite a few. So I dunno, it sounds profound, and it's true that there's a tendency that just by being there you're taking up something that might be someone else's . . . but I'm not sure if what's she said is really true overall.