Noa-senpai wa Tomodachi. - Vol. 12 Ch. 113 - Noa-Senpai and Winter Clothing

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Tbh, there are a lot of cute winter clothes for a girl like her. I don't understand her reason for sticking to skimpy clothes even on winter season. Why don't she just buy sum for winter? Unless the author is planning for a cute winter shopping date with her, I guess that checks out. :thumbsup:
 
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It's feeling a lot like the mango about the middle school girl who decides "starting today you're my childhood friend" because both end up with a totally dating situation "but we're not".

I keep wondering what this story would be like if written josi or shoujo instead of seinan.
 
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Tbh, there are a lot of cute winter clothes for a girl like her. I don't understand her reason for sticking to skimpy clothes even on winter season. Why don't she just buy sum for winter? Unless the author is planning for a cute winter shopping date with her, I guess that checks out. :thumbsup:
Good deduction. Imo, she's just dumb
 
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bpd demons don't act like men. she would get so much worse :shamihuh: never try to "help" one of these creatures irl, they will never be thankful for anything you do for them and will continue to demand more and more
My research thesis is on BPD, so this kinda pissed me off, ngl.

I'm sure you meant it as a joke, but this is like saying all depressed people will never appreciate what you do for them because they're too sad.

Some people are more ill than others. Generalizations help no one.
 
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Maybe it's just my own bias, but I find Rihito waaaay more annoying at this point.

What annoys me most isn't even that he is boring, it's that he doesn't do anything differently either. Months of hanging out with Noa, and he genuinely can't figure her out at this point? Like... she is not complicated to understand. She wears her heart on her sleeve. Not to downplay her antics, but if rihito just gave Noa the TINIEST of reassurances over her anxieties or offered any sort of empathy or friendliness I think she would be profoundly less anxious and annoying about it.
A lot of people aren't going to agree with you, but I 100% do. Multiple times the only reason Noa has crashed out is because Rihito stonewalled her.

I initially liked that he was a more calm, grounded man. Unfortunately, it's not that he's calm, quiet, and put together. It's just that he's only ever apathetic or irritated.

Genuinely, this man acts like everything is a drag. I totally get being upset during those chapters when she's dropping 30+ messages, freaking out over random bullshit, or trying to book every second of his free time, but I hate how often he acts bothered over small shit like a hug, saying they're close, or just giving some kind of basic ass validation.

An inability to communicate in more than one sentence at a time, plus constant irritation and stonewalling as a personality is just as frustrating as the fidgety blushing from other male leads. It's just a different brand of the same kind of obnoxious, imo. I'm not saying Noa isn't consistently insanely unreasonable, but I can't stand Rihito's dull, whiney ass, either.
 
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My research thesis is on BPD, so this kinda pissed me off, ngl.

I'm sure you meant it as a joke, but this is like saying all depressed people will never appreciate what you do for them because they're too sad.

Some people are more ill than others. Generalizations help no one.
I absolutely did not mean it as a joke. I've made that mistake and I hope nobody else does
 
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I absolutely did not mean it as a joke. I've made that mistake and I hope nobody else does
Your anecdotal experience with an awful individual does not define all who have a disorder. Hell, men can also have BPD, so I don't know why you'd say "they don't act like men."

Part of why BPD is so hard to treat is the stigma that gets perpetuated by people generalizing all with the diagnosis.

Whatever. Not the place for this discussion.
 
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It's feeling a lot like the mango about the middle school girl who decides "starting today you're my childhood friend" because both end up with a totally dating situation "but we're not".
At least in that one, they eventually arrive at a point where they've let each other know it's "soon, but not quite yet". These two gonna be doing this same dance until Japan legalizes Ritalin.
 

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