@zeroxjac: Sorry, didn't meant to tag you. Your leeway statement was a great example and felt it should have been expanded on. The statement was actually meant in the general sense, but...yeah, I tagged you out of habit. Again, sorry for that confusion. :/
But yeah, it was a shit decision. No one's saying otherwise. Just saying that INITIALLY (and I can't stress that enough) the MC thought it was an eroge. If you've played any, you'll find some games have that as an option and you can still win points towards the girl. Fucked up? Dear god, absolutely! Again, blame the system, not the player. The argument is that fantasy rape is not the same as real rape. Obviously this is extremely controversial and we could talk about this for months, but I think we can all agree that this was a very VERY poor decision.
And yeah, it was changed to "subjugation" due to a translation error. But I don't think this makes any difference. Going back to the beginning where the MC thinks this was an eroge and was told to "subjugate" her instead of "assault" her, it still would have gone in that direction.