It's always amusing to see people like you who believe that it's all about muhh personality and say go out touch grass , but it's actually the other way around. Do you know that the halo effect is a real thing? There are supermodels out there for a reason. There's a reason why girls have height standards like men have weight standards. SOCIETY IS SUPERFICIAL ALWAYS HAS BEEN AND ALWAYS WILL BE. You need to talk to women irl instead of virtue signaling incels on the internet. There is a plethora of data out there on internet you might want to look at
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