Osananajimi ga Hisabisa ni Saikai Shitara Otagai Kyonyuu ni Natteta - Ch. 4

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@Kathami sadly in japan its not that much, ive seen RL cases of molesters putting the blame on girls for dressing lightly, and the worse part is that it kinda worked, like they got reduced sentences coz they put some of the blame on the victim, coz apparently laws are that dumb in that regard.
 
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It's not victim-blaming. She's not a victim, and he's not blaming her. It's concern.

I get that the action itself is pretty much the same, but what matters is intent. He doesn't want her harmed. It's like telling someone to be careful while climbing.

Phrasing is the key. He specifically mentioned her being "in danger". He's showing concern for someone he cares about, someone he thinks might get hurt.

Edit: just to clarify, what really changes the meaning is the timing. He's saying this before anything happened, which still makes it kinda scummy but not victim-blaming. He wants to prevent something bad, not explain or lay blame.
 

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I know that it shouldn’t be taking seriously because is in a comedic tone (he is jealous cause he obviously likes her and doesn’t want other guys to look at her or whatever) and I liked her response (I dress how I like) but it’s still victim blaming saying that she will get molested because of how she dresses...
 
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Damn, that ending page just confirmed the waste of so much of her potential, I guess big boobs is enough, but a fat cock would make the 10/10 a 25/10
 
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She doesn't have one? My disappointment is immeasurable, and my day is ruined.

@Kathami None of his words had a smidge of victim-blaming to me. He's telling her of the dangers, not telling her it would be her fault if she dressed that way. She should indeed be free to wear what she wants, but there's always a cost, and in this case, it's standing out as a target to scumbags who actually would use the victim-blaming excuse for when they get their sick kicks. Things shouldn't be this way, but it sometimes is.
 
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@Kathami pretty definitively not victim blaming. dressing or acting a certain way increases the risk of being assaulted, in much the same way that eating poorly or using drugs improperly increases your chance of illness. victim blaming means you lay the fault of an encounter at the feet of the one who was attacked. he is attempting to reduce the relative risk she faces when she goes out
 
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@Kathami
Again, it's not victim-blaming since she isn't a victim. Nothing happened to her, and she doesn't even consider herself a victim.

It's shitty that things are this way, but all he's doing is explaining reality to her. Of course everyone can wear what they want. But they still need to be aware of what that may result in. Free choice, but more importantly informed choice.
 

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