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And the mental gymnastics Olympic gold goes to. . . !
I get where ur coming from but a lot of what she did was out of jealousy and fear of losing him, which is a lot worse cuz what shes doing is exactly what the mc was saying she had him at the palm of her hand. Reread the first chapter she literally mocks him in front of her other friends… either that or she’s acc dumb to think what she did in the first few chapters was showing him offShe clearly saw everything through different lenses, and doesn't understand why what she did was wrong. Maybe in her view, she was just trying to shape him up into a proper boyfriend, and thus he should be grateful for that, and not that she was just constantly putting him down, and making him miserable for her actions.
She wasn't purposely malicious while growing up, but she has no self awareness, which in it's own way it's more fucked up than actually being aware of how much of a piece of shit you are, and still doing it.
My mother was an emotionally abusive narcissist who did similar verbal abuse out of what she considered love and teaching as a parent.How can she be so unself aware?
I just want to know wtf she was thinking, while making him wait for over an hour in pouring rain?! I think thats the most fucked up thing she did.She clearly saw everything through different lenses, and doesn't understand why what she did was wrong. Maybe in her view, she was just trying to shape him up into a proper boyfriend, and thus he should be grateful for that, and not that she was just constantly putting him down, and making him miserable for her actions.
She wasn't purposely malicious while growing up, but she has no self awareness, which in it's own way it's more fucked up than actually being aware of how much of a piece of shit you are, and still doing it.
Hope you are good now.My mother was an emotionally abusive narcissist who did similar verbal abuse out of what she considered love and teaching as a parent.
This is a fictional character and all of course, but some people just are that messed up in the head that they see what they’re doing as good, unfortunately.
Don't forget the almighty ukeleleNext chapter: Hanabi make an apology video saying "I made a severe and continuous lapse in my judgement, and I don't expect to be forgiven." while promoting Lunchly and singing she was in the Thick of It.
What kinda bullshit is this.
I'd guess her logic would be "he's being a good boyfriend by obeying his GF, and waiting for her, that's great" or something like that?I just want to know wtf she was thinking, while making him wait for over an hour in pouring rain?! I think thats the most fucked up thing she did.
Again, if she legitimately did not see what she was doing as wrong, she can't see her own actions as fucked up. She was trying to make him into a good boyfriend, so him running away and doing his own thing? Betrayal, and throwing away all the love and effort she shared with him in her eyes.I get where ur coming from but a lot of what she did was out of jealousy and fear of losing him, which is a lot worse cuz what shes doing is exactly what the mc was saying she had him at the palm of her hand. Reread the first chapter she literally mocks him in front of her other friends… either that or she’s acc dumb to think what she did in the first few chapters was showing him off
Honestly I am in the same boat.I just want to know wtf she was thinking, while making him wait for over an hour in pouring rain?! I think thats the most fucked up thing she did.