i think it's pretty obvious but i think kafman's statement to her about the bowl thing was him trying to express sympathy toward her rather than her assumption that it was mockery. given how he acts he seems to think highly of her (and probably thinks she is wasted on the emperor)
BITCH BITCH!!! This is just like death is the only ending! You dont want her and dont treat her right, but you hate it if someone else does??? Fk you!!!! Empress may be your empress, but she isnt your toy!