@Laurenmac328 So we arrive back where we started that you feel criticism that you don't like is to not be uttered.
I believe all criticism is worthwhile; I've certainly seen worse and less constructive criticism.
I also feel you attempt to draw an analogy that I reject — a black man during Jim Crow laws would be discriminated,
de jure, regardless of whatever he identifies as; if he were to "identify as white" that would not absolve him; the discrimination is based on his appearance, not his identity. Even today, the black man, the ugly man, the poor man,
et cētera is not discriminated on that he identifies as. My only regret is that it is not the case that all who identify suffer; I have said it before and I shall say it a thousand times: If I could flip a switch and put every man into the body of the sex he least desires, I would, simply to see him, who cares so much about something as trivial as the sex of his body, suffer. The system solves itself, and those who are indifferent shall be spared.