underage student x teacher is not only illegal, but ethically/morally wrong. If you don't know why, look it up. Even student x teacher relationships involving university students and professors have issues
adults dating underage kids is morally wrong cause underage kids are not in the state of mind, power difference, issues of abuse, maturity, experience, relationship dynamics, puberty and so on... oh and underage kids are
KIDS. It's really simple, don't date kids.
And then if we bring up sexual matters, those are also straight up illegal. There is a reason age of consent, statutory rape and other laws exist.
Calling an adult woman sad and pathetic to fall in love with a teenager makes me think that you personally have moral issues with this sort of thing.
oh I dunno mate, I think it's very pathetic and wrong for adults, male or female, to literally fall in love with kids. Weird how you don't see why majority of people consider it a moral issue or why stuff like this have literal laws around it
there are even terms for adults falling in love with kids/teens, wonder why~
I don't see how it's no different than a 20 year old dating a 30 year old or a 20 year old dating a 50 year old, which is legal by the way
here's the difference: none of those examples involve underage CHILDREN. If you are older than 18, then do w.e you want, but if under 18 then it is a big deal
The female lead has expressed time and time again that she wants to only date the mc when he's 20
cool, she's still a teacher dating her student. Sex is not the only criteria to be dating, she spends a lot of time with outside school, has been physically close to him, a lot of hugs, stuff like kissing through mask, he kissed her neck, she cares/cooks for him and they have a clear emotional relationship on top of all that
so not only has she broken her moral/ethics as an adult, she's broken literal rules/laws of her job as a teacher whereby dating students is not allowed. Saying "oh I'll only have sex with you when you're 20" doesn't excuse everything she's doing now. There's a reason they have to keep this all secret and would never tell anyone about their relationship, think about why
and don't bring up the whole "oh the kid is more mature than other kids" people love to use, as if it completely excuses and justifies these types of relationships. Adults dating underage kids is not only about maturity, though yes it is one aspect of it as I've mentioned. But the age of consent doesn't have an asterisk saying "oh if the kid is mature, then sure go ahead"... also mature meaning what exactly? who judges his maturity? is he mature about romance/relationships for example? does maturity bypass legality?
Sure he has to work and live alone, but that's not automatically mean he's mature as a person.
if you think this relationship is bad but find teenagers dating ok
um, two teenagers dating is not the same thing as an adult dating an underage kid, what are you even trying to say here? o.o
btw, pls stop making assumptions about me in your post, or bringing up stuff that has nothing to do with the topic on hand :/
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sigh, also I'm really over this manga and having to keep replying to people tagging me over my opinion on it, going over the same points again and again -_- if you (or anyone else) wanna keep discussing this or w.e, DM me and I'll get back to you when I can. Thanks