@SquigglesJP
It's a little more nuanced than that. But surprisingly, [cheating] and [netorare]/[netori] are completely different tags!
For the uninitiated, netorare involves "getting conquered". Netori being the inverse.
Cheating, again, surprising, is the neutral ground variant.
Bare bones, netorare: victim partner is precieved good. Netori: victim partner is percieved bad. And cheating: victim partner is unknown/reader doesn't care.