But he's also a bit of dumbass to have pushed away his childhood friend like that.Bro was emotionally stunted from the start but the deal with his folks prolly put him on edge even further. Doesn't want to be betrayed anymore but doesn't want to be pitied either. Doesn't understand everyone elses emotions to some extent cuz he's not able to express certain emotions himself maybe.
But he's also a bit of dumbass to have pushed away his childhood friend like that.
Then be all like "I'm so all alone, no one is on my side." Chuuni 101 really.
I mean sure it can feel kinda like pity, but many people can understand roughly what someone is going through when it comes to loss. Sure, it's never 1:1 as the situation has all sorts of different baggage and moments that it's built upon, but many people actually have empathy. Like I may have never been in a real relationship, but I can absolutely know how bad it would feel to be cheated on even with my limited exposure.Obviously. The girl crying in that boy's stead is actually just retarded. You're going to make him feel bad. Nobody in this world can understand how someone is feeling when they're down, saying shit like "I get you man. I feel your pain. I understand how you feel" is just stupid. No you don't. Human emotions don't work like that. It is so easy to see that you're just lying through your teeth when you're saying all those stuff.
When someone is at their lowest point, as a friend you are supposed to give them assurance that if they ever want to or decide to start moving on with life, you'll be there to lend a hand. That's it. Your duty as a friend ends there.
that's a bit reductive, don't you thinknow i fully understand this guy is just plain stupid, no wonder his life is shit
projection 101now i fully understand this guy is just plain stupid, no wonder his life is shit
i mean if i have to explain, i understand the family situation, what i don't understand was him lashing out on his childhood friend. imagine the last person who cares about you in the world and you pushed them away because they're trying to help you. that's what made me mad about him.that's a bit reductive, don't you think