I'm going to laugh my ass off when it comes out that Kaor(i/u) is a guy in drag to Papa. I have a feeling it's probably going to go the route of, "Yeah, I already guessed that" and show, like I dunno, a memory of an upright toilet seat after Kaoru got out of the bathroom or something.
Gonna be an interesting story to tell their kids, too. "Momma, how did you get to know daddy?" "Well, we were friends on the computer and then met each other in real life. Then I made him crossdress so we could hang out."