@mem
huh? that man is so wrong and probably racist as fuck. jpn is not a slur or dehumanizing, it's literally the internationally recognized way to shorten japan/japanese. j*p is the slang and dehumanizing one here because it was literally used as an anti-japanese slur against both mainland japanese and japanese immigrants in the us and even canada. i have been called that same slur before (despite not being japanese and instead southeast asian), so please trust me on this. if not then google is easy to use and free.
also you really shouldnt trust anything that comes out of reddit since that site has a reputation of not exactly being friendly towards minority populations. i had to delete my account because one anime community i joined absolutely refused to stop acting like wild animals and stop saying every imaginable slur and would make derogatory comments about me as an asian girl, to the point that they would send death and r*pe threats. not saying that all of reddit is like that but still... it has that reputation for a reason...
that women/womxn one is more of a personal taste that came out of, i believe but correct me if i am wrong, second wave feminism when feminists wanted to distance themselves away from association with men (for various reasons). the womxn/womyn is still in use today but be careful regarding this as well because many that use these are transmisogynists, though that may not be true all the time.
like i said, exercise caution when using words and terms because words have meaning (despite what reddit may tell you). i glad that youre willing to learn and perhaps even correct your behavior to avoid something like this in the future. so have a good day! d(ゝ∀・)