While they probably won't go into it because they haven't experienced it yet, ladies, when a guy asks for advice while making love: try and give it to him. After years of lovemaking, I thought, I finally had a young lady mention I should trim my fingernails. (I won't say where my fingernails were at, but I'll let you extrapolate) Mind you, this occurred after a marriage of 39 years came to an end. Just don't turn it into a bitch session. Be like a good teacher. Don't want to hurt his feelings, say you heard/read about it and want to try it in such and such a way.