Isn't she doing the same? Pretentiousness, giving unasked advice, it distracts her from her own inferiority complex.
It's not like her actions will lead anywhere good for her. Either she survives by staying alone, with all the emptiness that carries... or seeking rational, self serving people, ends up as someone's slave...
Meh, I know where this is going though, two polar but equally hopeless approaches find the middle ground for optimal survival without misery.