So essentially, the person who dies first has something lood done to their body them? Or did I misunderstand the win-condition and the intent behind the penalty (seemed like she planned something lood, though probably less so than handholding)?
That it was a draw, implies that as they died at the same time, it was a violent accident. The cliché is a car-crash killing the entire family, no? Except when it leaves the child traumatized for life and only able to be redeemed through future tragic supernatural shenanigans appearing.
Though sometimes kyubey saves the kid, let's hope the kid doesn't lose her head over it.