A Sword Master Childhood Friend Power Harassed Me Harshly, so I Broke off Our Relationship and Made a Fresh Start at the Frontier as a Magic Swordsma…

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First thing I thought of when I saw that bottom panel on page 31
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I get that this is some kind of revenge porn but the way his gf fell to her kness when he said he's leaving? So fucking cringe
 
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I liked how the MC wasn’t passive and did what he thought was right to escape the abusive relationship he was in, but then “muh special, gorgeous black hair” and then the wizard girl’s face with the whole mana reading thing. Why can’t people just write stories without relying on tropes that aren’t even good?
 
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Wait so the new (and probably now main) girl offered to synchronize with the MC knowing that she was forbidden from doing so and most people would legit DIE if they did so with her?! She even went as far as to lie to the guy who clearly knew nothing about magic or her reputation. That is so many times worse than a tsundere sword master girlfriend that showers you with free stuff and is a little harsh with words. I mean she did get really apologetic when he said he was leaving. I feel like they could have easily sat down and talked things through; she at least seemed to honestly love him. You can’t not like a situation and never have a serious talk about it and then just run away from it. That is so many kinds of unhealthy, wrong, and inappropriate (and is not the “confident change” the author portrays it as, but pure cowardice). The MC wasn’t exactly being physically abused (domestic violence) and the mental abuse went as far as some insults slung his way. I’d understand if we were told he tried talking it out, but his first move is just to leave? If this has been a problem for a while at least bring it up. It seems like that would have solved/prevented everything seeing as she both acknowledged (and HE acknowledged) that how she acted was due to the stress of her new position (the best thing to do for your girlfriend then would be to say “okay, I get that you’re stressed, but you can’t take it out on me. How bout we have some fun when works over? Or sex. Sex is good at relieving stress” not “I’m going to ask you to stop, you should be able to read my mind, but you didn’t so I’m out”) and she apologized the first time (well I’m assuming this is the first time since the author flew through their relationship so quickly) he adamantly brought up the issue. I really can’t NOT, see the MC as in the wrong in this situation. Unless he just straight up never held any romantic feelings for her and was forced into the relationship. Communication is one of the biggest things in literally any relationship (romantic or not). You can’t expect someone to know they’re acting abusively or hurting your self esteem or just doing anything you don’t like, until you tell them. Certain close relationships live and breathe off of insulting each other. I’d get it if the mc never loved her (which again we got nothing about their relationship so I guess that’s possible), but otherwise he didn’t even try and make that work. When you finally gather up the courage your first response to problem (if you actually care about fixing the problem) can’t just be to run away; if you don’t care about fixing it (or in this case the other person) then sure. But I mean, if you know your girlfriend is having work related stress problems and is venting on you because of that, there are much better solutions than leaving her for that reason (again unless you just don’t care about her which is valid). I mean, I kinda feel for her. Now she’s more or less all alone and the cause of her stress is still there, but the person she looked to to lessen it (albeit in a manner that (probably unknowingly) hurt him) is now gone. For her to change that much from childhood her new positions and responsibilities had to be pretty heavy on her shoulders and now that’s only going to get worse.
 
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Wow the manga skipped way too many important plot points and development as to why our MC left his idiot "tsundere" (more like bitch)
, though sorta redeemable as she seriously regrets her actions
ex. It's great to see their designs, but it's way inferior than the WN.
 
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More handsome? He looks more beta now LOL. Normally Emo hair is considered handsome in Anime, he looked like a pretty boy Zelda or something...
 
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The way he left his girlfriend was really immature tbh. It may be because the manga did not adapt the novel accurately and left out major parts of it or the plot is just like this to force the revenge-stuff people are getting their pants wet on nowadays
 
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I couldn't see any wrong with the girlfriend either, she definitely like him but him he only think her someone that always treating him harsh.
Beside didn't he do that adventure test to checking magic power before when he was adventure. Why does he denied himself that much?
 
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Wow, he lived like a frog in a well before. Good job of him to finally go out and do "some real adventuring". 😀
 
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Finally someone wrote a story where the tsundere gets what she deserves.
 
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this is a bit of a rant----has to do with a pet peeve of mine

ok so the relationship was Her abusing Him..for whatever reason ANY abuse is wrong. she was being degrading and controlling and i assume he tried to help or stop the cause but no change..saw others comments on WN and whats what i gathered. So he left..the right thing to do.

now the peeve part. it has to do with gender stuff. the fact it was a guy being abused by a girl lots are like, oh whatever and he should have done something. when we all know if it had been Him abusing Her you all be up in arms and condemning the guy. i hate that when its girl victim everyone supports the choice to end it, but if its a guy being abused people ignore it or blame the guy...gender "equality" at its finest

again sorry for the rant. it that this kind of thing pisses me off. i support the guy leaving and fining himself and his own happiness
 
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Hmm, a bit confusing here. Is his new name Flint or Frick? Maybe he named himself Frick Flint?
Anyway, he was aware that she was being verbally abusive for stress relief purposes, but he didn't talk it over with her first?
I'm okay with a person leaving an abusive relationship, but it appears that she thought her behavior was okay because he never complained about it. It would have been better if he let her know that her attitude was a problem and that she should find a different avenue of stress relief. If she doesn't rectify her attitude then hitting the road is best choice. Not really an option if the relationship was physically abusive as well, but it's portrayed as mainly verbal abuse so without more details it's difficult to tell.

Then again he said it's been happening since childhood, so another question I have is, who the heck initiated their relationship in the first place? Did he ask her to go out or did she tell him that they were going out?
 

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