This is one of the most real and heartfelt stories I've ever read. I like a good fantasy novel but this is something different. It's not meant to have an overpowered mc, and you can actually feel Hari's constant battle with this life of hers. I love it.
Also what's with y'all being so hung up with her being older mentally. It doesn't change the fact she's a human being, who craves for love and care, and who, on top of that, has been abused for 20 years straight and has to revive them again. This isn't meant to be a story where the MC knows all the story already and has superpowers.