I mean I already dropped it so I have left, yeah.
But, fine, if you and your friend want an argument for you to ignore while you're patting each other on the back, I'll go into further detail about what's wrong with the story.
Besides the atrocious pacing and out-of-place memes, the main character Melissa is ultimately a bully. She is a bully who has had to put up with bullies, but that simply makes her the worst sort of bully... the kind that will never see themselves as anything other than a victim. Because they've been bullied too, they're convinced of their self-righteousness and that all of their actions are justified purely because clearly the people they are attacking deserve it. That was the point of saying that she is not just out to teach them lessons, but that she then attacks them once she's made them vulnerable, because she's not out to just stop their bad behavior, she's out to hurt them and enjoy their suffering. That's bullying.
It's also utterly laughable that you throw out the excuse that "But Yuri approved of Melissa fighting all her battles for her!" Yeah, just like Yuri would have approved of one of the guys' behavior in the crappy otome novels Melissa was reading before being reincarnated. Like I said, she's just like them, right down to the author being on her side and having characters dote on her despite behavior that would drive a real person away. The series tries to say "These behaviors wouldn't be so great if you actually had to put up with them", while doing the exact same with Melissa, who would be an absolute nightmare if you actually had to live with her but because she's pretty and presented as the dashing hero you blind yourself to her faults and unabashedly praise her as a stunning and brave protagonist. It's either a brilliantly subtle gotcha to the whole concept or one of the most unselfaware self-owns I've ever seen.
In fact Yuri's whole thing is hilarious because Melissa gripes about the bad writing of Yuri being expected to shape herself to one of those jerks, but Yuri simply winds up shaping herself to a different jerk, Melissa. Her personality becomes little more than a reflection of Melissa's, and her entire presence in the comic becomes about trying to please Melissa. "I can protect myself" she declares to Jake, when she has never, ever once done that, and in fact her first really significant presence in the series is Melissa needing to come save her. She has so far not handled a single situation without Melissa, or actually initiated any sort of action or plan of her own, absolutely everything she has done has been at Melissa's behest or in support of one of Melissa's plans. She, like Nine, has no life or existence outside of the main character, her sole characterization is Potential Love Interest.
Basically, there is absolutely nothing different about this series as compared to one of the chauvinist screeds it's mocking other than that the protagonist is gender-flipped. The protagonist is still a manipulative bully who takes others for granted and has shallow love interests swooning over them in spite of it, she just has better hips and hair than they usually do.