@mahtan
Did you just say that... being raised better is 'in their genetic code'? That's uh, one of the stupidest things I've ever heard.
I mean yeah, nobles will often be better educated than commoners, you're right about that, though it's not an infallible rule, and often nobles learn more bad things than good things so they're not necessarily better than a commoner, guys like him show that off well.
Where does genetic code come into that though? Nobles aren't genetically better or particularly different at all, upbringing is all they tend to have going for them, which can mean a lot depending, but again, not genetic at all...
Anyways, as for the girl, it's definitely dumb to just let her go, but Belgrieve isn't the type of guy who'd stop her regardless of it being a bad decision. He's been shown to be a softie.