This tsundere troupe has really gotten out of hand, it's ok to a certain extend and it might even make the story or character better if used correctly, but in this story it's absolute bullshit, if your friend has his life completely ruined and when you try to help him but he's too afraid to try, that's his problem, you can try to help him, but if he doesn't want to put effort then that's his fault, but who in their right mind would force beat the shit out of the poor dude, "oh I know if he doesn't want to get his life back together then I'll violently beat him and force him too!" also didn't she say that she stopped trying to help him and just kept beating him?