Harapeko Oyako to Motokare Yanushi - Ch. 5

[kaikuro]

I find it strange how people clearly read the synopses and saw this is a SoL with a cute art style... and still are going hard on the vitriol.

This is a story of adults, whatever he may expect he will talk it out with her or choose to let it go his choice, and she clearly chose him because she trusts him, because he is a stand-up guy that she knows won't take advantage in this moment of vulnerability.

This is not a dark adult story about broken people screwing each other and feeling pitiful of themselves, this is a cute little story about people that live life in all its messiness but without being assholes, these are two functional adults that had a relationship and because of a turn in life have meet each other again, she isn't a gold digger, her daughter is just a single child that loves her mother and is a bit untrustful and he is just a good guy helping someone.

Jesus... people can't take things for what they are anymore, everything has to be a hate fest.

that just show how toxic a reality we live in and that make people come here to comment and thrown shit at this.
serously this just a SoL manga, i just hope people enjoy this while try to survive in this socialty.
thank to team for translate this and hope they dont get discourage by these toxic comments.

 

[biologist]

even had a kid

Maybe because I'm still poor but that is dealbreaker for me.
Maybe I will consider if I also have a child of my own. Isn't relationship needs to have fair/balance power dynamic according to people these days?.

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it would be important for you to be certain

when your neighborhood is full of drug addict it's really hard to trust people.
I have seen too many of my acquaintance burned becuase of their "old friend".

 

[amc9988]

Me when they show them dated in the past first picture:

"Oh so they dated when they are in middle school as a kid... so cute"

then they said college

Me: WHAT

 

[LinkedSet]

when your neighborhood is full of drug addict it's really hard to trust people.
I have seen too many of my acquaintance burned becuase of their "old friend".

Too true, even if people want to be better, it can be extremely hard to stay better. Relapse can come completely unannounced and undo a decade of work. Or just kill them.

 

[bondejeger]

Maybe because I'm still poor but that is dealbreaker for me.
Maybe I will consider if I also have a child of my own. Isn't relationship needs to have fair/balance power dynamic according to people these days?.

I think a lot of people don't want to date single parents with kids because there's going to be a lot of responsibility in rearing children that's not you own. It's probably easier if you have kids yourself and are in the same situation.
At least I've steered clear of some single parents because of that reason. It might be a bit egoistic, but I really don't want to raise someone else's kid like that. Especially if there's a chance that the relationship fails and you lose all contact with them.
Probably easier when the kids are getting a bit older and can take care of themselves I guess.

 

[OkitaJSouji]

I spent more time reading the comment section than the actual chapter itself

 

[blehblehblahblah]

Maybe the circumstances of the fmc aren't that sensitive and/or critical, but you can't know, and demanding an explanation like that could put them back at risk. At the same time, if you have a family to protect I understand that it would be important for you to be certain you weren't letting a a girl coming down off heroin (for example) into your home without proper warning.

While I do agree that there would be nuance to prying into Kyou's situation, I think that there's a major difference in offering shelter to struggling teens and offering shelter to an adult woman with a job and a child. I feel as if someone is going to be making their stay in another person's house uninvited and unnotified, the least they can do is is inform the homeowner of your reason for staying abruptly (which, Kyou does do in the first chapter. I just can't tell if I should be believing that there's more to that or not). I think saying something as simple as "I have my own personal reasons for needing to stay here" goes a long way.

 

[misopogon]

It's really fun seeing when a manga really sets off the Mangadex users like this. It's that "I consent, I consent, I don't - isn't there someone you forgot to ask?" meme; people act like they're the ones being taken advantage of, offended on a personal level.

 

[tobias5678]

I've never seen a manga trigger users even to the point of them being banned. Yes because this is real ass.

 

[tobias5678]

I feel like nuance is hard for a lot of people. This woman clearly is down on her luck (and as stated by some other characters they think her personality leads to others taking advantage of her) but that doesn't make her "an invalid and untrustworthy woman" like... these are the people that think homelessness is a sign of personal failing rather than systemic failing.

I'm just waiting for the "Yeah turns out her father is a rapist and was molesting her. So we needed to escape. His and my parents are both dangerous, and likely to hand us back over to him. I turned to you because I knew you weren't going to hurt me or my daughter." It might not play out exactly like this, and I actually dislike the idea of using rape as a plot device rather than it holding the weight it should carry. Still, I strongly doubt it's just that she felt like crashing at her ex's place and dragged her daughter with her just for funsies. There will be a reason.

Beyond that though you have to think, does her having a dramatic reason justify her and her daughter needing a safe place to stay? Or does being human justify them needing a safe place to stay? According to a lot of people who read this manga, you need to come from horrific circumstances to justify being in a hard place, and even at that it still makes you a bad person. How can you even argue with malice of that degree? It's just wicked.

And now I expect the backpedaling to "no it was never actually about her 'mooching' it was actually because she's a selfish wh**e" and like... she's not that bad guys. I know this isn't your first rom-com, how do you guys feel about things like Akutsu-san? Because that girl literally forces herself into the mcs life and home on a regular basis, and being extremely spoiled until they start catching feelings. Tora-dora is considered peak by a lot of people (honestly me too, the christmas scene is fire af you know the one) and she physically beats the absolute shit out of the mc constantly, while acting like a brat. Idk maybe people are more ok with manga-dramaticized characters when said characters don't feel too similar to real people? Maybe the fmc in this series just hits too close to home for a lot of readers? I really don't understand it.

Her solution is to find her daughter a suitable husband stat. G. o. o. Y. A. K. O. D. O. N!!!!

 

[tobias5678]

She's food addict and BOOZE addict so I know where she works.

It seems she doesn't care if she gets fat anymore.

Maybe because I'm still poor but that is dealbreaker for me.
Maybe I will consider if I also have a child of my own. Isn't relationship needs to have fair/balance power dynamic according to people these days?.

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when your neighborhood is full of drug addict it's really hard to trust people.
I have seen too many of my acquaintance burned becuase of their "old friend".

 

[tobias5678]

I think a lot of people don't want to date single parents with kids because there's going to be a lot of responsibility in rearing children that's not you own. It's probably easier if you have kids yourself and are in the same situation.
At least I've steered clear of some single parents because of that reason. It might be a bit egoistic, but I really don't want to raise someone else's kid like that. Especially if there's a chance that the relationship fails and you lose all contact with them.
Probably easier when the kids are getting a bit older and can take care of themselves I guess.

Plus oyakodon IS crime.

 

[shozen]

I can't fathom the understanding of all the people who see nothing wrong here. Y'all must either be very privileged or have no self conscience to think like that. It would have been different if he was a long time friend or at least she was paying some money as rent,but not only is she living there free while letting her daughter behave rudely with the guy who put a roof over their heads, but also eating all the food and drinking alcohol to which she hasn't contributed to at all. Not only that,all this is for a relationship which was only a few months long . I have no expectations from the guy at this point,but the shamelessness of the mother continues to amaze me every chapter.

 

[tobias5678]

I can't fathom the understanding of all the people who see nothing wrong here. Y'all must either be very privileged or have no self conscience to think like that. It would have been different if he was a long time friend or at least she was paying some money as rent,but not only is she living there free while letting her daughter behave rudely with the guy who put a roof over their heads, but also eating all the food and drinking alcohol to which she hasn't contributed to at all. Not only that,all this is for a relationship which was only a few months long . I have no expectations from the guy at this point,but the shamelessness of the mother continues to amaze me every chapter.

I read something similar just now about that gal sis with a :little bro: who will bring chuck's justice.

 

[tobias5678]

Every time a new chapter is released... 10 more comments are added to the series section... revealing how hated this is.

 

[tobias5678]

For real though, I was already unbanned. There were Xenforo issues that mods had to fix.

EDIT: Just in case, @Ndtm can back me up.

I thought you got SKILL: haxorzzz....

 

[DesertStorm]

It's really fun seeing when a manga really sets off the Mangadex users like this. It's that "I consent, I consent, I don't - isn't there someone you forgot to ask?" meme; people act like they're the ones being taken advantage of, offended on a personal level.

Could you be neurodivergent? You can actually see his facial expression. He's actually slightly annoyed with her. Sadly, some people lack the ability to empathize with others.

 

[tobias5678]

Could you be neurodivergent? You can actually see his facial expression. He's actually slightly annoyed with her. Sadly, some people lack the ability to empathize with others.

CEOs to be exact. Guess who else: the board of directors.

 

[Takuma_Aki]

it's not that deep guys

That's what she said

 

[bobleponge]

You know what... I think you are right, Modor is making its play, probably because they are offended by that sacrilege that is RoP.

Which is kinda ironic as the "creators" of that insult to everything good should be revered by them... but I presume the orcs in Modor are evil... not tasteless.

Kinda ironic that you agree that everyone has a hate boner nowadays and at the same time throw such vitriol towards RoP when all in all it's a pretty decent show. Are you mayhaps one of those orcs in disguise?