@MerriLee3s
The thing is, i never said that doing that would make you thinner. We are not made equal, so my healthy may not be your healthy, and that's okey. Depending on a list of things, a professional can accurately tell you what your ideal weight should be. Of course, a doctor will not tell a patient with iron deficiency to "run 30 minutes daily, eat only veggies and stay thin!" that's not reasonable.
I explicitly said it's not about looks, it's about feeling better, and it's scientifically proven that doing those things I mentioned have a lot of health benefits as long as you keep those within reason for your circumstances.
I am all about supporting different kinds of beauty, yet, i'm not all about supporting non healthy lifestyles. I have never in my life met someone obese who follows an exemplary healthy lifestyle. There's a big difference between someone who has some baby fat, someone with stretch marks, someone who may not be conventionally attractive or even someone big-boned (as some people call it) and an obese person. I can tell you how borderline-obesity looks like, and how it can affect you. It's not good. It's not pretty. There's no positivity there. I don't even wanna talk about obesity.
If in context, Britney was not comfortable being overweight, and she wanted to change that, she had the rights to do it. It's a core aspect of the story and obviously intentionally so. It signifies a big change, something very noticeable for the characters.
I do agree with you on asian beauty standards. They seem ridiculous to me as an outsider, yet i do not feel like i'm informed enough to talk bluntly about it. (I also share the wish for a sweet story that's less of a makeover story of sorts and more of a coming of age)
I just have to agree to disagree with you here:
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The isekai is a bit newer but the idea of someone suddenly becoming happier because of weightloss? Nope. Not new. It's the most prevalent trope in fiction around and it's continuing. What's worse is that we internalise it and then defend such tropes as being done 'right' or being examples of 'self-restraint' 🙄"
It is an ugly trope. I don't think It could ever be "Done right" because you will never be happier just because you lost weight, that's just putting on rose colored glasses. But! I don't think every story about weight loss is about that.
Losing weight can represent you taking over control over your body once again even when you thought you lost it completely. Losing weight should not be the change that makes you happier, losing weight should be the result of said change. You should be content with who you are even before starting a weight loss journey.
I don't think that part was done specifically right here, but i have to be fair, this is an isekai, and we are not talking about a single girl and her body, we are talking about a fricking body swap 😂😂
Rn, if you swapped my body with Britney's, i would be depressed as hell! And i would probably try to change those bad habits that the old body had. I think a bit of self-restraint would be envolved, as I'm a big fan of sweets which are abundant in there, and i think part of taking care of oneself envolves not going overboard with, in this case, food.