i like this story and all but... isn't it kind of... awkward? for her to compete against literal children, plus using knowledge from her past life to get even further ahead. also, if she really wants to be a 'matriarch', shouldn't her job be to take care of ALL thefamily members and not just the ones she likes? and yet she talks about taking things away from a relative. who is still a child at this point.
sure, they bullied her and destroyed the family in her past life and i'm usually thr first one screaming "off with their heads!" in the comments but... 1/ she's mentally an adult and they are children. 2/ matriarch means taking responsibility for the whole family and keeping eveyrone happy and safe. 3/ it's the past still and the boy hasn't done anything *too* evil yet.
so her behavior is... kinda cold. and very, very calculating.