It’s so funny cause my friends dad is just like this, he started a new life with a new woman and whatever, but once she got her drivers license and a car she would go on little trips with no destination. It would last for days, but I would go over to her place to feed her snake ( a very calm and gentle boy) but this one time he asked me where she was like “I haven’t seen her for a few days, is she staying at your place.”
I’m pretty sure the only reason he notice is because the house was dirty and she wasn’t there to clean it for him and his wife