@Sommeguy
AFAIK it does indeed mean “one who only bottoms”.
Maybe I’m wrong. I’m not up on as much slang as a lot of other queers, nor is my wife.
We love gay shit, but “scene” shit is super uncomfortable. Feels so performative, aggressive and hypersexual. Being queer AT each other or some shit.
I once heard the “hanky code” mentioned and said “I don’t want to know. I don’t need to know. I’m happily married, and that’s not my deal anyway”
Looked it up (super awkward) and I guess he’s not aggro about it.
SCENE SHIT.