A: the difference is completely there. Japanese is a contextual language.
None. It's weird you're telling
me about Japanese.
B:she uses a dating site to find men, filters them, and then arranged a "meet cute" to test them. Manipulative? Sure. Evil? Nawh. Plenty of girls do it.
Prove it.
C:nothing says they do this every summer. Nothing. And yes, her mother could have been ill that whole time, and now it's gotten worse. Do you know how illness works?
Except the fact that she disappears every summer. You already know all the evidence we have to suggest this is a cyclical thing for them.
D: you have no clue. I have 2 step parents. Have since I was 4. Never been abused, never said "You're not my real parent". You're just a complete piece of shit with out dated ideologies.
I come from two generations of step-family. That thing that gave birth to me got a step-dad, and that went about as well as you expect when a girl gets a stepdad, and then I was sent to live with my grandmother and my step-grandfather. The moment she died, he started shoving me off to every last actual relative I had and stole all of my money for years before I even knew what a bank statement was. And when I finally found out, I ended up homeless, slandered, and alone.
You wanna play the "You don't know anything" game? Because this isn't even the most out-there story I've got.
It could have a spiritual meaning like good luck or chasing away evil.
It does not. The author would have immediately ruined the tone for the rest of the manga for his intended audience if he had done something like that, anyway.
Show me the part where its not? You're doing the same fucking thing. We didn't see her stalk him prior. We don't see his info on the laptop. "Everything points to".
We don't see the dating/matchmaking site, but you'd swear on a stack of bibles that she's got his info from there. 🤷♂️
If she used a dating site, she'd
use the dating site.
Why would he? Would you tell everyone you were looking for a wife on a dating app if you just "naturally" met a girl? Especially in Japan where image is so important.
Omiai is not shameful, embarrassing, or otherwise negative, in Japan. In fact, it's the traditional way of doing things, and would garner him a relatively serious, respectable image with his family, and possibly his community.