For once I am thankful for the situation we are in now (coronia stops all gatherings).
I am not a wedding party guy and all I want is to save money for the future. And wedding is a darn of money eater. 5k? 15k? 40k? I rather have it in account instead of making a party for others.
I tried to make the argument "instead of party how about only a travel, two of us?" but in the end, it ended up being both, being the travel taking earlier.
And I don't even dare to expose how this would impact future / brainpower and time, else, I fall into the risk of the ride getting all sad for having reality being brought up.
No wonder I understand this guy (for giving in) but not for the same reasons.