A lot of the reactions are so odd to me, Sono Bisque has never been pure romcom fluff. Sure recently it's been more serious, but even then the manga has always been about hobbies, worries, confidence to do what you want to do. To act like the reason Gojo is the way he is is irrelevant is moronic at best, him facing the reason for his trauma is perfectly normal and fine as a character beat. Also so what if it's a "misunderstanding"? They were kids, she was ignorant and emotional. Did people want her to be some evil calculating villain who wanted to hurt him for the heck of it? It's normal to be young and say something you truly didn't mean, it's normal to feel bad about doing that years later and it's very common for a child to get scarred from such an experience(even more so given that he lost his family).