If i get isekai'd i guess first things first is to make sure that my neck isn't on the line. Maybe avoid every people that can potentially mess me up. Then with my modern knowledge, open up a business that has never existed before. Of course I'd like it if i was isekai'd as a lady in a wealthy family, it would be easier to start a business that way. Love is the last thing i would think of but if the time comes and i found the right guy, why not?