She at first, if I’m not wrong, didn’t treat her son that way, she actually loved him and treated him well. But remember she was young and she really didn’t want to get married, and then everyone kept pointing at her bc she had a son and that she couldn’t have her own time of fun because she had to take care of him. At that, she felt like her son stripped her of her youth, like he ruined her life and came to hate him.
I don’t totally hate her because the father is also at fault, he could’ve talked some sense into her or at least idk, to do something for her to change, I get that it’s difficult, but he didn’t even try to do anything for his son in that sense. In that last chapter he did well telling her off like that, because it’s true that she neglected him, but I feel like not everything is to blame it on her.
Just my opinion, don’t hate me, thank you