Also just to clarify, she is not “cheating” on Dowun...
dear maam/sir, you might be right that there is no physical affair yet, but emotional affairs? absolutely. and i'm not saying she can't do that, because "fall in love with each other" is not part of the mutual deal. she can fall in love with anyone, but by god, do it in a safer way. if you haven't noticed yet, the palace isn't a safe place. there're eyes everywhere and people talk all the time. beside, this ambiguous relationship with the bodyguard could be a liability for her in the future.
not commit any act that will betray the marriage, which the mc has not done.
yet. isn't engagement part of marriage, too? if she can emotionally cheat him now, albeit he knows about it, what do you think will happen when they got married? it's the same if you have a fiancee and he/she cheat on you emotionally with other people? won't you feel betrayed? but then again, she's free to do that, because feelings are not part of the mutual agreement.
doing things her way which Dowun has did whatever he wanted since the fkin beginning.
Everything that he has done has only been for the sake of his clan which he would go through any lengths to achieve and that is concerning.
And you all are telling me that the mc is SELFISH? HE is the one being selfish tf?
did she really never done anything she wanted at all? wasn't she the one who asked for dowun's help? isn't that shows her selfish part to be something? nobody forced her to do that. her situation forced her to do so, because she knew well she could never survive if she still stayed the same useless princess like before. god knows what her other siblings would do to her if she's still stupid when the king died. and why is dowun not allowed to do things for his own survival, but it's okay for honglyon to ask for help? why it is okay for honglyon to cheat on him and make alliance with dowun's bro to go against him? why? because fl is more pitiable? because dowun is not some sad, sappy emotional guy, so everything he did is invalid? both of them are selfish in their own way. they did anything they wanted for their own selfish desires.
The mc hasn’t been selfish for a long time and has been sacrificing for Dowun.
lol. this is so glorifying the fl. nobody sacrificed anything for anyone. she obeyed what dowun taught her because she knew it was the only way for her to stay alive in the palace at that time. now she's a somebody, she's being a bitch about how dowun taught her to be. why then she did not complain at that time when she was still a nobody? because she fucking realised that the things dowun taught her would help her regain favours with the king, the government and her people. that's why she finally gained a new liveable palace, right? both of them did what they need to do to secure their own position.
You do not treat the people who loves you as tools for the sake of a goal ma’am/sir.
in regards to this, i'd argue dowun didn't know that honglyon 'loved' him before making her part of the plan. how would he know that she will like him? is that his fault too that she fell in love with him? could he even aware of such thing? he's smart alright, but his eq is low. he's a fucking moron in terms of romantic relationship. and this is not an excuse, he was just written that way. i don't think he would choose her if he knew she was in love with him, because he always saw emotions as a weakness at that time. and looking her situation back then, she would fall in love with anyone who gave her a little bit of kindness, though it might be just some common sense kindness, like what the bodyguard did. you could literally switch dowun with his bro and she would fall in love with him, too. and it is part of their mutual agreement to be in political marriage, which in return dowun would teach her about things beneficial for her to survive the palace. why just because she loved him, he needs to reciprocate her feelings? i think it's fair of him to treat his relationship with her like a business deal, because it was a business deal from the very start, one they both agreed on. love is not necessary in political marriage, that's why it's called political. now, he's developing feelings for her and she doesn't like him anymore. it's his karma and a lesson of life for him.
if we wanna talk about GOAL here, i think the main purpose of living, no matter ancient age or modern age, would still be the same, which is to survive. the way you want to survive is your prerogative. but this was the way they both chose it. and you said "You do not treat the people who loves you as tools for the sake of a goal". what about honglyon then? didn't she also use dowun as a tool for her own gain even if he was someone she claimed "loved" back then? if she found it was immoral to use your loved one as a tool, then why she didn't quit her mentorship with dowun back when she realised her feelings? huh... makes you wonder about it. i won't talk about his bro situation, because
@fineokden and
@cinic had made an excellent explanation for that, which i agree with.
I need you all to stop attempting to excuse Dowun please.
Do y’all even understand his character or just don’t give a fuck?
first of all, nobody is making excuses for him. we're just stating things as it is, just with different glasses you have on. i think everyone that you deemed as 'excusing dowun' is fully aware of what kind of a character dowun is and what kind of things he's capable of doing and have done. and don't tell us to stop thinking the way we think just because you disagreed. we are independent thinkers, not just someone who follows the mainstream idea.
Want the mc to show respect for him?
HELL YEAH. if a guy taught me how to become something much better than what i used to be before, of course i would respect him. he's her mentor, and you couldn't discredit the things he's done for her, that would subsequently benefit BOTH OF THEM. it doesn't mean she should like him, but respect? definitely. that's what we call being grateful. he's harsh to her, but at the end of the day, she could read because of him. how do you think a royal who's illiterate and no backing would survive in the palace? she should remember who she really was before meeting dowun.
All in all, she made her bed, so go fucking lie in it. The way i see Honglyon acted right now is just like this: "fuck you dowun, i don't need you anymore because i'm a fucking queen and also smart now. so, i'm gonna do whatever the fuck i want without ever considering those around me or the very person who helped me become a queen". so yeah, she's like this. she hasn't done her part of the mutual deal yet, because the marriage isn't happening yet. but she has all the benefits now, so she dared to trash dowun because she's not a useless princess anymore. i don't know what this is called other than being ungrateful and bordering with betrayal.