Ah, I wasn't going to read this, because there aren't as many chapters as I would like, but I did and now I'm sad I have to wait.
I don't think this story is toxic. See for yourself. Ignore the comments taking about r*pe, because that literally didn't happen.
Don't expect a wilting, submissive fl. She's an adult. She knows herself, what she likes, what she wants/doesn't want, and is aware of her flaws. She is used to being in control, and she teases the people around her, but she is still kind. Basically, she a well rounded character.
I honestly don't know what to think of the ml, my perspective has changed several times as we learn more about him. Lol