Making a proper review from what I've caught up on. I explained it to my friend as ""my god, this is the level of understanding of gender and how people will react and sometimes be weird about it that would get you crucified on tumblr""
Based on the comments, this holds pretty true. I'm going to be honest if it wasn't for my deep love of guilty pleasure with GB stuff I'd have maybe passed over this, and so rare it's a girl becoming a guy which is a whole new thing! I came into it and we got hit with some of the 'haha dick gags' and I honestly thought it was mostly going to be some funny exaggerated bits with overblown characters and then...wow!
We got hit with gender shit, we got hit with trans allegories, we got hit with outright trans shit. We got to see a ton of various experiences intersecting and clashing and seeing how these clash together in...kinda realistic ways! Like yeah sure the world DOES ask you to do a bit of buy in with the premise but like, no more than we get asked to when we are told to believe in a unique fantasy element like aliens are real and want to invade us. Getting hung up on it wouldn't help the story and it realizes that, and instead focuses entirely on the characters of the world and this story and how it affects them! Which speaking of, wow!
The characters are genuinely written well and believable. Even when people are more outlandish or doing wild things, you can find the threads that make you understand why they act that way very soon in the story or at least go "okay yeah fair, that must be why they act that way!" Sometimes that means that someone acts weird. Sometimes they act in a way that makes us the reader uncomfortable, or might even make a character uncomfortable! Sometimes there is a touching moment intersecting a funny joke gag because while it's unrealistic to happen in real life, we have control of the timing in this and we can use it for comedy purposes! So the characters, while they can have their moment, all feel like real, likeable people for different reasons.
Is the way the story handles the aspects of gender? Fuck no! Is the way the story handles aspects of gender something that feels, when it's touched upon truly, realistic? Yes! Because it's an entire clusterfuck of different experiences and people reacting to it. Yeah, some people roll with it and just vibe with their new gender, a lot seem to! Then some people like our protagonist are trying their best to go back to the gender they originally had and want to keep. All these people who are making these decisions have different reasons for it. They have different wants and desires or sometimes the same wants and desires but with different limits on what they'll do for it. Chapter 11 showed that extremely well with the video! Is it the protagonists fault this is such a heavy thing to broach, a harsh reality to actually face in the face of the limitations of our technology to reverse this sex change disorder? Not at all! And the fact they weren't ready to face that reality isn't their fault either, because sometimes life is just harder to go down if you pick a certain path you really desire!
I honestly recommend this one because once you do get past the first level of cliche discomfort, you quickly realize how much is put into the writing and characters, and how sometimes you'll find out that yeah, people will react in ways that can make us the reader uncomfortable. That's not a bad thing though! In this case it was refreshing to feel uncomfortable and realize it wasn't because a joke had been made at horrific expense. It was because people were acting in a way that felt uncomfortable and...honestly, yeah. That's life, and good on the writer for taking the plunge and the risk to write characters like this. 9/10 at time of review.