Both parties are victims here.
Winter got scammed and got laughed at (for being a mixed-blood who worked hard but got scammed). Meanwhile Violet, who grew up pampered and loved, got pulled into this mess because of her shitty brother. Since she's pampered all her life, she wasn't mentally ready for the neglect and ridicule.
I pity both of them, truly. Hoping they'd be able to come to term with each other.