It's honestly kinda more obnoxious with this framing.
"Oh yeah I isolated myself from someone I cared about in the past, too, and that lead to me losing the chance to ever connect to her again. Yeah I'm doing the same thing again. I've actively talked to others about it but I still won't change."
Like how does this make it seem better? Sure, it's tragic seeing someone unable to break their habits and lead themself into such a similar situation, but she's way too needlessly antagonistic and that kinda ruins the sympathetic angle, at least for me.