If only there were psychologists that you could send the child to or recommend the parent to go there with their kidWell, she's a teacher, not a child psychologist, so... hard to blame her for quitting after the "regular" approach failed in such spectacular fashion, twice
What exactly did she do wrong and how else should she have acted? Can you tell me more about it please? I'm intriguedI guess the middle schooler hasn't learned that even if you're right, it doesn't mean you have the right to be a cunt about it.
Not that guy, but putting the reason into words before stating her intention to distance herself from the magical girl should be good enough. Spare the other person from having to think too deeply and wreck themselves over it. Especially since she seemed like she knew how the magical girl would react to the situation. Had she'd been ignorant of the magical girl's personality, being blunt would be fine. It's a dick move otherwise.What exactly did she do wrong and how else should she have acted? Can you tell me more about it please? I'm intrigued
Exactly. Like, it's especially because they used to be friends that I can't excuse the complete lack of tact (it's bad enough to do that to a stranger, lol). And as you said, judging by the way she talked, she seemed to have known the magical girl's personality very well. Yet, despite all that, she just bluntly told the magical girl to basically fuck off. She did that to a girl who had no ill intentions whatsoever. Her displeasure was enough justification to her to be a total cunt to the magical girl.Not that guy, but putting the reason into words before stating her intention to distance herself from the magical girl should be good enough. Spare the other person from having to think too deeply and wreck themselves over it. Especially since she seemed like she knew how the magical girl would react to the situation. Had she'd been ignorant of the magical girl's personality, being blunt would be fine. It's a dick move otherwise.
It was impossible to solve. There were no culprits, no victims, no immediate ill effects, and the girl was 'fine' as she said herself. With no way to get through to her, and no help from anyone, it was only a waiting game until the girl recognizes she has a problem and allows others to help her - which never happened. At this point bullying would've been easier to deal with.At the end of the day the teacher gave up cause she felt it was too difficult to solve, and instead chose to ignore it. A tactic not uncommon mind you, but still a failure of her professional duty.
Certainly if you're not qualified for the job it is impossible to solveIt was impossible to solve.
You dont know if it was impossible to solve since the teacher gave up before even trying. She "tried the hardest" but still only talked with her once, and a classmate of her once. That is hardly trying imo. She may have been bothered about it on the inside for a long time but that doesnt change anything if she doesnt act on it.It was impossible to solve. There were no culprits, no victims, no immediate ill effects, and the girl was 'fine' as she said herself. With no way to get through to her, and no help from anyone, it was only a waiting game until the girl recognizes she has a problem and allows others to help her - which never happened. At this point bullying would've been easier to deal with.
And I don't agree that the teacher ignored it when she was the one who tried the hardest, and she's the one still bothered by this failure.
Just because a student says they're fine, doesn't mean they actually are
Certainly if you're not qualified for the job it is impossible to solve
Of course this is a failure and there are things she could have done better, but at the same time she was outright rejected by literally every person she approached.You dont know if it was impossible to solve since the teacher gave up before even trying. She "tried the hardest" but still only talked with her once, and a classmate of her once. That is hardly trying imo. She may have been bothered about it on the inside for a long time but that doesnt change anything if she doesnt act on it.
Teacher did not try reaching out to her parents. Didn't try sending her to the school curator. Didn't try talking with her regularly. Didn't try reporting her to the child welfare bureu. Didn't try any of the dozens or so ways a teacher can try and help a student in their care.
Just because a student says they're fine, doesn't mean they actually are, and a teacher just choosing to ignore things after having a talk with them once, IS a failure of duty, no matter how you spin it.
Oh and btw, how about you stop acting like a condescending, disrespectful smartass?Certainly if you're not qualified for the job it is impossible to solve
Because it is. 🙃Every message, reply and reaction from you reeks of mockery.
Yeah, and I'm saying stop being a condescending douche. It doesn't make you look smart, it just makes you look like a jackass.Because it is. 🙃
He called my contribution worthless even though I didn't give any to let others solve it themselves!Yeah, and I'm saying stop being a condescending douche. It doesn't make you look smart, it just makes you look like a jackass.
You're not adding anything to the discussion, you're just being unpleasant. Your contribution is less than worthless.
Huh. Looking back, I must've misread the part where I thought that was addressed. So I guess this was an option indeed. Though it's still difficult to help someone who doesn't want any help. And it's impossible to force stubborn people to just get along (I've been there).Teacher did not try reaching out to her parents
And this is what we call a cry-bully. Acts like a total asshole to others, but then plays victim when some of the shit gets thrown back at them, lmao.He called my contribution worthless even though I didn't give any to let others solve it themselves!
Help! I'm being bullied in a comment section of a manga about... Well it's not really manga about bullying is it... Oh well, nothing new I guess just same ol' day