I'm reposting what I wrote on Reddit:
I don't think Gonda is to blame, but I also think he might not be totally understanding the situation. If he really wants to be there, this might be a situation to be a bit more persistent. She hasn't said she isn't interested in him, what she's giving him is an easy out. She needs someone who isn't going to be put off by the trouble she is giving him right now, and if this is enough to dissuade them, then he's not as invested as he thinks he is.
And also, they've had like one date together. How serious is he really going to be? This just shows his inexperience. Even if they don't move forward dating-wise, they can still be friends. Him deciding that he's not ready to be a father doesn't mean they didn't have a good time together.