Give us that well-articulated, not-up-for-debate, educated and clear list of character flaws sis!
As much as I hate Ian it would be nice if he had character development instead of just getting dethroned like in other series. I mean, under no circumstances should Yuri ever be pushed into his marriage, but if he just has growth and gets into an arranged marriage with someone else for political reasons...I'm down.
His education must be really poor if he thinks that everyone should just accept his logic because he's royalty. Yuri and Melissa are allowed to reject his advances...trying to justify your own character, after someone told you they don't like it, is silly. Either you change yourself and make it right or you accept that you aren't the right match for each other. You don't get a free pass just because you were "raised that way."