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I think the point wasn't that she was helping others out, the point was that she never said no and never established personal boundaries. If you always just agree even when you're busy yourself you will burnout sooner or later and probably also neglect the task that you were originally hired to do. Especially when you never ask for help yourself. Such behavior could either be explained by simply not being able to stand up for yourself or seeking validation by trying to be useful for others
And that's why I said company loyalty is a two way street. Natori isn't the only one working.
Yes, Natori should be more assertive and recognize she needs to set boundaries, but everyone in this thread saying Natori needs to stand up for herself is doing the same thing her coworkers are doing: shifting all the responsibility onto her, and by extension if she "fails" to set those boundaries it's entirely her fault.
That being said, you're definitely correct because this is Japanese work culture we're talking about. I don't think her coworkers would be as nice as mine were.
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